THE BENEFIT OF RAMA NAMAM

I read one story about BAKTHI

An old blind brahman always praying about Lord Rama, his soul is full of LORD RAMA.

After seeing his bakthi one day Lord Rama came in front of him and told I am very much attracted by your bakthi, please ask me whatever you want but I can give only one chance.

That old man think and asked I WANT TO SEE THROUGH MY EYES MY GRAND SON SHOULD DRINK MILK IN GOLD SPOON IN A SEVEN FLOOR BUNGLAW"

God gave that and went off.  But he is an old man, how he will get grand son.  Accroding to GOD's wish he has become a young man and got married and got a bunglaw and got wealth and his eyes too.

If we pray to god we will also get whatever we want.

DONOT BELIEVE OTHERS .. A TRUE STORY

My neighbour was a very nice man and leading a simple life.

One day his friend son came to his house and asked 1 lakh for his son's medical expenses as he met with an accident.

He immediately gave that money and saved the child.

After two years my neighbour went and asked his friend's son about his money.  He suddenly got angry and told if I know that you will ask me to repay means I will not take that money from you.  You are my dad's friend, you should give that money as free of cost.   My neighbour shocked and told about this to his friend.  Surprisingly his friend also repeated the same word.

My neighbour come back with empty hand and informed me never ever give money to any body, who ever it may be.  It is the lesson I learn in my last stage and he cried.

I was too confused, why my neighbour friend & his son cheated this person?

Can any one explain why?

SILENCE

A MEANINGFUL SILENCE IS BETTER THAN MEANINGLESS WORDS....

CARE IS ONLY TO EXPRESS 

& NOT

TO 

IMPRESS

SELF-ESTEEM

SELF-ESTEEM IS A FEELING WHICH COMES FROM AN AWARENESS OF WHAT IS GOOD AND HAVING DONE IT.

SOME CHARACTERISTICS OF PEOPLE WITH:

HIGH SELF-ESTEEM                                   LOW SELF-ESTEEM

Talk about ideas                                                   Talk about people
Caring attitudes                                                     Critical attitude
Humility                                                                 Arrogance
Respects authority                                                  Rebels against authority
Courage of conviction                                             Goes along to get along
Confidence                                                            Confusion
Concerned about character                                     Concerned about reputation
Assertive                                                                 Aggressive
Accept responsibility                                                Blames the whole world
Self-interest                                                              selfish
Optimistic                                                                  Fatalistic
Understanding                                                           Greedy
Willing to learn                                                           know it all
Sensitive                                                                    Touchy
Solitude                                                                      Lonely
Discuss                                                                      Argue
Believes in self-worth                                                 Believes in not worth only 
Guided                                                                       Misguided
Discipline                                                                    Distorted sense of freedom
Internally driven                                                           Externally driven
Respects others                                                            Looks down on others
Enjoy decency                                                             Enjoys vulgarity
Knows limit                                                                  Everything goes
Giver                                                                            Taker

Do not be a HIGH SELF-ESTEEM  OR A LOW SELF-ESTEEM

BE A MODERATE.

CONSTANT INNER GROWTH

There can be no physical life without an order and rhythm. 

When this order is changed it must be in obedience to an inner growth and not for the same of external novelty.

It is only a certain part of the surface lower vita nature which seeks always external change and novelty for its own sake.

It is y a constant inner growth that one can find a constant newness and unfailing interest in life.

THERE IS NO OTHER SATISFYING SWAY.